I cannot believe I am going to be a college graduate. One of the first in my family to ever go to college and I’m proud that I took those first steps and took a chance on myself four years ago. Looking back, I never thought I would be in the position I’m in today and I’m glad I never gave up on myself even at times when it seemed almost certain. I can say that now I am almost a completely different person than I was when I first started college at UPIKE. My college experience has changed me and gave me experiences that have shaped me into the person I am today. If I could go back to give my younger self and other students some advice and tips, I would say don’t be scared to take risks. Talk to people you don’t know. My advice would be to join a club, even if you are shy or nervous. It doesn’t matter and nobody cares what you look like, if you don’t look like your best today, or if you don’t have your whole life together. Just remember that everybody is in the same boat wherever you are and we’re all just trying to get through the day. Also take care of your mental health and your physical appearance. Don’t be afraid to treat yourself from time to time and do things you love to relieve stress and keep yourself happy. Make time to relax and breath because sometimes the college experience can be a little overwhelming.
It’s perfectly fine to not have your entire life planned out. I would always get stressed out about not having every aspect of my life planned. I didn’t always know which graduate school I should go to or where was I going to work after graduate school. When would I find the time to fit in marriage and a family? Sometimes I still don’t know the answers, but I do know that if I keep putting one foot in front of the other and believing in myself that It will all work out in the end.
In college and in life things will change and so will your plans. I thought I always had a specific plan for my life: Graduate college, go to graduate school, marry my long-term girlfriend, become a professional football player. However, when I realized I wasn’t going to the NFL, or when I broke up with my long-term girlfriend, my plans changed, and that was okay. It worked out in a better way. Even though my plans are totally different from what I thought would happen when I was a freshman, I’m so happy with the direction my life is heading now. My last piece of advice would be to be nice to everyone and yes, I do mean everyone. That includes classmates, other students, professors, co-workers, or even the lady working at double quik. Whether you are aware of it or not there is always the potential to network with others. It’s a small world we live in and you never know who knows who. When you get to where I am In a few years you’re looking for job opportunities or graduate school options, these same connections could help you get the job or the position you desire.
So, to my younger self and any freshmen, sophomores, or even juniors I hope you take my advice. I wish someone would have told me these things before I came to college, and I hope my tips and advice helps you and other students. You don’t want to look back at your college experience with regret. Search for opportunities and experiences while you’re seeking your higher education.